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Boundaries

To love myself is the only mission I have, and everything else will fall into place accordingly.  Setting boundaries, both internally andexternally, is the first step.  True freedom comes from self-discipline.

True love is rare

True love is rare.  People marry for many reasons, often based on illusions or fantasies, and then end up getting divorced due to disillusionment, among other things.

Scar, spot and flaw

If we don't accept ourselves No amount of others' validation would make us feel better Embrace every scar, spot, and flaw And change if we must from a place of self-love and self-compassion

No matter what

I have learned that sometimes you just can't get to have what you want in life No matter how hard you try No matter how much you love

The hardest thing

The hardest thing isn't to achieve something It is to let go

Being an adult

Being an adult is to learn to sit with pain that comes and goes Then, all of a sudden it stings you sharply again Learning to detach from EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE and be okay with being alone But it feels like I have been learning it my whole life Nothing lasts and no one stays

I don't need

 The sobering truth that I don't "need" anybody else. Love myself and connect authentically with others. 

Values that Matter

Values that matter: Kindness Respect Integrity Honesty Authenticity Truthfulness And lastly, it's difficult to accept but essential : Freedom of choice given to each other. 

Nobody

Nobody can save me Nor can I save anyone It has always been my own reflection Save yourself...

Reminder

Everytime I find myself try to hold onto something  I remind myself to let go and let go It is insecurity talking..

Type

I no longer believe there is a type anymore You just love who you love 

Life can only be found

You can't truly live anticipating death Life can only be found in each present momemt 

To love is to let go

Sometimes to love is to do what is good for both persons Sometimes to love is to let go 

Nothing you can do

There is nothing you can do to make someone love you more. And there is nothing you can do to make someone love you less. But always, always love yourself. 

Love is free

When you find a beautiful flower, you don't have to pluck it just because you like it Just leave it and let it be It is the same when you like a person You don't have to stir up something that is not ready or not meant to be  Sometimes to love is to let go  Love is free

Soulmate

Real soulmate is not created, chased and idealized.  There is nothing you can do to stop him from coming to you And it will never work trying to make someone into one. 

Obsession

Obsession is not love. It is just your mind playing tricks with you repetively. Love is substantial reciprocation.

One step at a time

Sure, the mountains are high, but don't keep looking at it getting all overwhelmed. Focus on the steps ahead of you. Take one step at a time.

Where

There is no any other place to arrive. You are exactly where you need to be now.

Insecure

When a dog is scared, he barks. When a person is insecure, he shouts.